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Wednesday, November 19, 2008 ; 2:32 PM {♥}

The lame entry series 2- friend abuser

Yup, as mentioned above, I have got a friend abuser! Sob. She (YES, SHE) always bully me in class and even outside class! She is such a violent girl with disguise of a gentle lady-like feature. No doubt, she is a chili padi, maybe not as hot as it but definitely as sexy to a chili’s figure! OMG guys, I know what you are thinking of now. Don’t think the wrong way please.

It's funny how a man only thinks about the...
You got a real big heart, but I'm looking at your...
You got real big brains, but I'm looking at your...
Girl, there ain't no pain in me looking at your...

Ok, I better stay focus. Back to the topic!

Let me show u an evident of how torturous she likes to be.

Isn’t she sick? Definitely! Look at those redness! =(

Not just on hands, she LOVES to hit my butt too. Yeah, damn pervert lar this girl. Hmmpf!

She loves to torture hamsters too! Oh, poor little creatures, they must be crying out for pain.

(Ok, pictures are stole from Juan’s blog. Heh I’m a theif. Shhhh =p)

Alright, here are some warning signs to look for that might mean your friend is in trouble and needs your help:

Your friend often cancels plans at the last minute, for reasons that sound untrue. (I did that sometimes but seldom though )
Your friend is giving up things that used to be important to them, such as spending time with friends or other activities, and is becoming more and more isolated. (Yeah, I’m getting more emo nowadays after being abused by that FRIEND ABSUER! )
Your friend's weight, appearance or grades have changed dramatically. (Ya lar, my face, my hands, rest of my body ESP my butt (COS SHE LOVES TO HIT THERE) got bruises. SO UGLY! But how I wish I can change dramatically in a good way lar. More clever, slimmer and pretty! -.-)
Your friend has injuries they can't explain, or the explanations they give don't add up. (All thanks to Stacy! Argh )

So DO:

Listen first to what they have to say. (Yeah, I should give the priority to talk! I want to protest! That friend abuser always doesn’t let me talk and accused me of talking random stuffs! Hmmpf!)
Talk to them in private and keep what they say confidential. (Secrets you mean? Or gossip? Or XOXO girl? )
Let your friend know why you are concerned. Be specific. Refer to incidents you have personally witnessed instead of what you have heard from others. (Show some tender and love to me lar. Don’t be stringy =) )
Offer to get your friend information. (What information? I don’t need those unnecessary stuffs cos I have Candy! Oopxs! )
Mention other people your friend might talk to - a counselor, a teacher, or another adult they trust. (Ng Yuen Ling? Or Ser-low Wai Ming? Maybe Saw Ling Kiat? No no, fishball will hard stare me if I talk to Saw Ling Kiat!)
Let them know you are available to talk more if they need. (Yeah, all the people out there who love me, better leave some time for me. STOP dating, busying or MIA-ing! =) )
Give them the love is respect, National Teen Dating Abuse Helpline, number or website address. (999? 995?)

DON'T:

Be judgmental. (YUP! Definitely! )
Make them feel stupid or ashamed. (Though I’m abit w-o-l-s and have thicker skin sometimes )
Ask lots of yes or no questions. Give your friend a chance to talk freely. (Yes, Stacy, give me the freedom to speak and stop saying me random lar!)
Force your friend to make a decision or give ultimatums. They have to decide when they are ready to get help or end their relationship. You can't do it for them. (No no, I have no boyfriend now. How to end?)

(Cited from: http://www.loveisrespect.org/get-help/support-friend.html)

So my Fishball and Mushroom, you know what to do. Please help me from getting abused by that friend abuser! OR ALTERNATIVELY, you can help me call 995 in case of any unforeseeable injuries.

BTW besides being such a friend abuser, she can also be damn random (FYI, more random than me). Since I won the title of being a random queen, it is impossible for another random queen again. So she shall be the RESTLESS QUEEN! Cos she gets restless easily and when she gets restless, OMG, many incidents happened like head bleeding, butt bleeding (HAHA, I’m damn exaggerating. Butt is the most fleshy part inour body, how can it bleed so easily? )